There was a time when I would listen to my single guy friends tell me how much they enjoyed being single and how they would never date again. Finally after multiple breakups, I finally get what they were saying all along.
The old saying “Can’t live with them, can’t live without them” is partially true. I have come to the theory that you can have a close relationship and retain more respect by remaining single vs committing or “going steady” or worst yet – marriage. If you find yourself in a committed official relationship or marriage you can still regain control and be desired and respected again like you were when you first met by simply doing one thing – acting like you are single.
Most guys naturally pose a bit of a challenge when they first start dating. Men who really understand women will pose even more of a challenge then the average guy and do so for a longer period. This is when women respond with the most interest and attention and are the most physically affectionate. Once a man gets comfortable and needy the woman will begin to loose interest and start taking an interest in other men that pose a challenge. While the woman may not want to end the current relationship because she has security and ego reassurance from her BF she will want the excitement from a challenge again and usually the BF’s best friends are definitely a challenge but also convenient.
The only way to prevent this is to always continue acting single and allways remain a challenge. If you feel as though your gf is no longer feeling challenged and is flirting with one of your buddys, there are certain actions you can take. The best way to find out if she is willing or wanting to cheat on you is to secretly catfish her. This way you don’t come across as insecure if you were to confront her directly. You can make a fake FB or Instagram account and do this yourself but making a convincing and realistic looking FB account is hard to do. You can hire a service called baitmydate.com
for $37.95 and they will do all the dirty work for you by flirting with your gf over messenger and then reporting back to you. All is fair in love in war. You deserve to know he truth!