Loyalty and trust are the moving force of commitment in a relationship. Once these are broken then commitment is shaken and may lead to further damage in the relationship which may result in a break up or divorce. There are ways of preventing such thing from happening if you read the signs carefully and awareness of things and actions that may come with cheating.
An open and loving relation may be broken by a cheating spouse. A sure way of finding out if your spouse is cheating or not, look for these signs:
⦁ Change in daily behavior including the way he dresses up, perfume or cologne and even the hairstyle. Different women like different things and men would do things that would please the women they are pursuing. So if he used to be a clean shaven kind of guy and decided off hand that he wants a beard, this can be a sign for something fishy. Especially if you are allergic to facial hair and he knows it.
⦁ Being secretive with their computers and phones. It is true we can’t keep an eye on our spouse on a 24/7 basis but one tell-tale sign of cheating are secret calls made in inconspicuous places like the shed, bathroom and attic. It is only ordinary to keep emails private but the laptop or desktop locked with a password is not. Being in a relationship whether married or not there is a required openness, laying all cards on the table kind where in everything can be seen and discussed openly. And a locked computer is a red alert sign.
⦁ Changes in intimate behavior from kissing and touch is a sign of cheating. Humans are behave in patterns even with sexual and intimate behaviors. Changes in these behavior is a sign of something going on. A guy being open to something new would tell his partner outright. But a sudden change without notice is something else and a sign of straying.
⦁ Spending too much time on the phone, in front of the computer and Over Times at work are sure fire tell-tale signs of cheating. Frequent emergency late meetings and other excuses are just a few ways to lie and meeting up with someone else.
Look for these simple to detect signs of cheating. But never confront your spouse about these because they may change back to their ordinary ways but does not mean he’s not cheating. It is better to catch him in the act or get some evidence of his cheating. That way, he won’t be able to reason out or even deny it. Using a service such as baitmydate.com
is a great way to get hard evidence. Services such as bait my date use good looking people to flirt with your significant other over social media. They report back to you with the results (screenshots etc)
We have all thought about doing it and many of us have done it. Creating a fake Facebook profile in order to catch a cheater is the best way to see how someone reacts to advances of someone of the opposite sex who is good looking when you are not around.
The problem is that we have become wise to these fake looking profiles and know right away what to look for if we suspect the profile may be fake. Here are a few dead give away that a profile is fake:
1. Small number of friends.
2. From another city
3. No mutual friends
4. Date on all photos are the same meaning they were uploaded all on the same day.
5. Dithered quality photos from being copies and uploaded and optimized over and over.
There is also a trick many people know about now to find out if you are being catfished by your bf or gf or spouse. Save one of the photos and drop in in the search field of Google images.
Because it is so easy to detect a fake profile these days we would recommend using a professional honey trap service such as BaitMyDate.com They will have one of their hot looking staff members flirt with your boyfriend or girlfriend or spouse using facebook and report back to you with screen shots. Busted!
Remember using another persons facebook profile to catch a cheater is a great way just make sure it is not fake.
Most of us are creatures of habit and fall into predictable routines and this is very evident in most of our sex lives with long term partners. With my last girlfriend our nightly routine was to eat some food, watch TV and cuddle. Cuddling would usually lead to giving each other hand massages, which would lead to back or full body back massages. The back massages would lead to sex. After sex we would eat more food and fall asleep.
I’m sure many of you can relate to this type of routine. Not only is there a pattern in these activities but there are patterns within the activities themselves. An example of this would be how your partner gives you a back massage. Chances are they sub consciously have routine in place in how they touch you and where they touch you. We become so in tune with the techniques our partners use during sex and foreplay that we will notice anything out of the ordinary.
If you are receiving a massage from your partner and they suddenly start using a new technique or more importantly if the ask for you to perform a new technique on them that could be a major sign they are having massage time with someone else. If your girlfriend requests that you use a karate chop method on her back and she has never asked for that any other time for the past year you have been together, she most likely had a co-worker or “friend” do karate chops on her back recently and she liked it. Remember, watch for anything that breaks your usual routine as a sign of cheating. If you are suspicious that your partner may be cheating check out BaitMyDate.com