Loyalty and trust are the moving force of commitment in a relationship. Once these are broken then commitment is shaken and may lead to further damage in the relationship which may result in a break up or divorce. There are ways of preventing such thing from happening if you read the signs carefully and awareness of things and actions that may come with cheating.
An open and loving relation may be broken by a cheating spouse. A sure way of finding out if your spouse is cheating or not, look for these signs:
⦁ Change in daily behavior including the way he dresses up, perfume or cologne and even the hairstyle. Different women like different things and men would do things that would please the women they are pursuing. So if he used to be a clean shaven kind of guy and decided off hand that he wants a beard, this can be a sign for something fishy. Especially if you are allergic to facial hair and he knows it.
⦁ Being secretive with their computers and phones. It is true we can’t keep an eye on our spouse on a 24/7 basis but one tell-tale sign of cheating are secret calls made in inconspicuous places like the shed, bathroom and attic. It is only ordinary to keep emails private but the laptop or desktop locked with a password is not. Being in a relationship whether married or not there is a required openness, laying all cards on the table kind where in everything can be seen and discussed openly. And a locked computer is a red alert sign.
⦁ Changes in intimate behavior from kissing and touch is a sign of cheating. Humans are behave in patterns even with sexual and intimate behaviors. Changes in these behavior is a sign of something going on. A guy being open to something new would tell his partner outright. But a sudden change without notice is something else and a sign of straying.
⦁ Spending too much time on the phone, in front of the computer and Over Times at work are sure fire tell-tale signs of cheating. Frequent emergency late meetings and other excuses are just a few ways to lie and meeting up with someone else.
Look for these simple to detect signs of cheating. But never confront your spouse about these because they may change back to their ordinary ways but does not mean he’s not cheating. It is better to catch him in the act or get some evidence of his cheating. That way, he won’t be able to reason out or even deny it. Using a service such as baitmydate.com
is a great way to get hard evidence. Services such as bait my date use good looking people to flirt with your significant other over social media. They report back to you with the results (screenshots etc)