CHEATING IS OFTEN THE RESULT OF INSECURITY IN A RELATIONSHIP
For most of us we tend to regard being cheating on as a sign that we are no longer attractive to our partner. Recent research shows that many people who cheat do so as a result of feeling insecure or inferior to their partner.
Imagine someone who is in a relationship where they feel less attractive, less educated or less popular than the person they are with. These types of people can resort to filling that void in their self confidence by means of having an affair. As immature as it seems, it’s very common for one person to consciously flirt or even cheat as a means of regaining a lost sense of power in the relationship.
Before you beat yourself up asking why you aren’t good enough for your partner after suspecting or discovering that your partner is unfaithful, remind yourself that it could be a result of not reassuring them of how much you truly value them.
By no means does low self confidence make an excuse for infidelity, but don’t jump to conclusions that a cheating partner equates to loss of interest.
Needless to say there is never a rational excuse for cheating in a relationship. Unfortunately most us have to experience the pain and suffering that cheating causes. The psychological scars can last a lifetime and that is why it is important to communicate and as a last resort – investigate your partners secretive activities that give you that awful suspicious feeling in your gut.
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