Most of us are creatures of habit and fall into predictable routines and this is very evident in most of our sex lives with long term partners. With my last girlfriend our nightly routine was to eat some food, watch TV and cuddle. Cuddling would usually lead to giving each other hand massages, which would lead to back or full body back massages. The back massages would lead to sex. After sex we would eat more food and fall asleep.
I’m sure many of you can relate to this type of routine. Not only is there a pattern in these activities but there are patterns within the activities themselves. An example of this would be how your partner gives you a back massage. Chances are they sub consciously have routine in place in how they touch you and where they touch you. We become so in tune with the techniques our partners use during sex and foreplay that we will notice anything out of the ordinary.
If you are receiving a massage from your partner and they suddenly start using a new technique or more importantly if the ask for you to perform a new technique on them that could be a major sign they are having massage time with someone else. If your girlfriend requests that you use a karate chop method on her back and she has never asked for that any other time for the past year you have been together, she most likely had a co-worker or “friend” do karate chops on her back recently and she liked it. Remember, watch for anything that breaks your usual routine as a sign of cheating. If you are suspicious that your partner may be cheating check out BaitMyDate.com